My grandma took me to get ice cream and I explained everything. What happened in my last post as well as everything else that's been going on this past year. She agrees with a lot of you guys that my mom is probably being abused and needs help. We're looking into options for groups and stuff that'll help her out, though my grandma's doing most ...If this is real, YTA for sure. By my account, you cheated on both partners: your husband when u stepped outside the understanding of your marriage, and your bf when u started fucking your husband again. Even if it was just once, which I have a hard time believing, that's all it takes to be a cheater.AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband.ADMIN MOD. Aita for explaining to my husband he’s the reason we keep having daughters. I 30 F have 2 daughters and am currently pregnant with my 3rd girl. We just found out this morning. On the drive to my husband’s mothers house he explained how he was a bit disappointed about having a girl. But then he said “I should’ve expected this ...It sounds like the man you love is also feeling pain… he is no longer able to leave the legacy he wanted to leave for his children and he has lashed out at you as a result. I know you’re not a fan of ultimatums, but maybe it’s time to give him one in hopes he realizes what he is saying. Option 1) leave your will as is.Turns out my wife must've told her about her decision and she decided to follow her lead. My brother is pissed saying my wife is encouraging his wife to do this. I see that the problem has just gotten bigger now. Who knows, my younger sister might join in and decide not to go as well. I don't know how this got out of control so quickly.OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My husband got upset at me for saying I won't be cooking anymore for him only and will be cooking food I think it's good. He doesn't feel guilty at all and he said I am not logical. Help keep the sub engaging!We were at a small house party with a few friends of mine from college and we were discussing books we've all read, when at one point one of my friends (let's call him Steve) asks Will, "So Will, what's your favorite book?" and my husband responds, "Oh, I really like To Kill A Mockingbird.". Then Steve gives him a quizzical look ...Update to aita for telling my sister I'm not the mother of her children ... AITA for telling my husband that I didn’t care about his work promotion when he spends all of the money anyways? upvotes · comments. r/AITAH. r/AITAH. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal conflicts, anything that's …Throwaway account. So me (26f) and my husband (28m), who I'll call "Jake" for this story, have been together for 5 years and married for 3. We have recently started trying for a baby as we both felt like that was the next step in our life together, and 3 weeks ago I got a positive test back.My ex had a laundry list longer than my arm of diagnosed mental conditions himself, but unfortunately for me, he was also a very skilled manipulator (he learned from the best, his adoptive mother), and was very pretty himself, so my brain stopped working like it should until God had to crack me upside the head with a 2x4 so I would wake the ...In my home country the custom is for the man's family to pay the woman's family, and they also have to pay for the wedding, buy a house for the couple, etc. I'm not sure what that's called in English. I find it problematic either way the money/gifts go - it sets up the relationship as transactional, which is ripe for abuse.Over the last 14-years, I, W38, have paid most of the bills. My husband, M50, had a regular full-time job until 2015 when he was laid off. Instead of looking for another job, he decided to make money independently and has some small success. In September 2021, we settled on a new house that is in my name. Before that, we lived in a house he ...My husband was laid off in late 2020, got a job in May 2021. He was laid off from that job December 2023 and is having ego issues because everybody interviewing him is younger than him. I had the opportunity to provide childcare for 2 neighborhood kids but he shot the opportunity down, saying the money I'd make is insignificant.NTA. I am mad for you. What a shitty bunch of in-laws, and I include your husband in that. Your kid, HIS kid, THEIR grandkid depends on you for food, so besides being a major fuckwattle to you, they're hurting their own blood as well, for apparently no reason whatsoever. It's time for your husband to stand up for you.Whenever I ask my husband to talk to his sister about the money he loaned her, he would tell me to chill and change the topic immediately. When I corner him, he would tell me that it's a small amount and he won't lose his sleep over it, and ask me to drop the topic altogether. It got to a point where I felt I should step in and ask her myself ...We've been married for a year, after being together since we were 19. We grew up in the same city, our families sort of know each other, and we went to high school together. After finding out I was pregnant, my husband told my his mother had been waiting for a niece/nephew for a long time, and she couldn't wait to spend time with them.So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband's mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent ...AITA for telling my ex his lack of money is not my issue? I (36F) have a daughter Sadie (12) with my ex-husband John (39). We got divorced 5 years ago and I have primary custody while he sees her two weekends a month. Last year, he got married to Amanda who has sole custody of her kids (10&8F) from a previous marriage.Original. May 18, '23. AITA for telling my wife I’m tired of raising a kid that is not mine. I (31m) am married to my wife Amber (30f) we have a daughter Emma (7f) the problem is my wife’s best friend Jennifer (30f) has a daughter as well Harper (7f) well Harpers dad is a lazy sack of crap and refuses to do anything with his daughter.Recently, my daughter started an affair with a wealthy 25-year-old man she met at a party, organized by one of her friends who works for the wealthy guy. This affair has been ongoing for six months now, and it even reached the point where her new partner met our grandchild two months ago, though he was asked not to tell my son-in-law about it.My kids have more time to study and do extracurriculars. They still have chores and they are still expected to clean up after themselves. My husband came to me last time I was home and said we should cut back on the service when I'm home. That I should be doing more housework. He thinks that we are wasting money.I cut off my sister for ridiculing my husband repeatedly. She did it to his face and I told her to knock it off and she sort of apologized. My husband said he was ok, and pushed me to let it go, so I did, but I watched her behavior very carefully after that.Mark explained that he doesn’t have that kind of money. So I said she can’t come back until my daughters stuff is repaired with a sincere apology. Koi agreed and mark was upset saying he couldn’t do that to his daughter. I told him to leave if that’s the case. Mark left for a few hours and handed my daughter a check for 1000 dollars. I ...Yep. My husband was just about done with his masters when he took a job managing a spirit Halloween for some extra money before we moved states (I assistant managed a different one, for the same reason, but anyway) and I came to visit him one day after work.My husband (31m) has always been super fond of nicknames and has given me plenty of them. They constantly change and I have never minded any of the ones he's given me before. They're all quite harmless, usually food or animal related. But they tend to stick for a while. His family also uses nicknames.In the Reddit post titled, "AITA for telling my ex to stop giving my daughter lunch money" under the "Am I The A**hole" forum, the anonymous poster known only as u/daughterlunch, explained her ...Some church offering jokes are “Country Church Stewardship” and a joke about Mary’s birthday gift. Another joke tells the story about little Johnny buying candy with his offering m...I left the table and my husband was still eating. as I was making my way back I heard his dad tell him to take it easy because he was eating a lot. he then asked my husband if I cook for him and if he eats well at home. My husband said that I do cook for him but the food I make can only be fed to pigs not humans. I was hurt and so offended.The story unfolded when a woman seeking advice posted on Reddit's popular "Am I the A**hole" (AITA) forum, sharing that she had informed her husband that the money she earned was hers alone. She explained that she had always worked and managed her own finances, and she felt it was fair that she maintained control over her earnings.Listen, your husband sounds a lot like mine with his family until I put my foot down. Absolutely no back one. This sh1t should have stopped a long time ago. At this point, your husband is just as much to blame for tolerating being treated like sh1t for so long. You need to accept, as did I, that he will get nowhere in life being a doormat ...I lost it again. Yelling, I looked at my sister-in-law telling her; How dare she use my nursery, for my baby, how dare she think she has the right. What she told me, made me fall to my knees sobbing. "It's not my fault you couldn't produce a …AITAH For not giving my husband my "escape money" when I saw that we were financially struggling. I 34F have recently ran into a situation with my husband 37M and am curious about if I am the AH here or not. So me and my husband have been tother for 8 years, married for 7.You’re so disrespectful, selfish and evil. YTA. Divorcing him is the nicest thing you can do. Give him a chance to find someone who would love and value him. This cannot be real…. I (27f) have been with my husband for 8 years. We were high school sweet hearts and was even voted so in the yearbook.Nice-Cry-8280. AITA for telling my husband I threw out his clothes to teach him a lesson? 30f. I have 4 children (10yo triplets - 2 boys, 1 girl - from my previous marriage, their father passed when I was pregnant, and a 6mo with my current husband). Been with my husband for 4 years.May 13, 2024 · ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband his “fragile masculinity” is costing us money? Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) welcomed our fourth child into the world. As a result, we needed to upgrade one of our cars to something larger. We decided to trade in my super reliable Toyota RAV4 for something bigger since I was the ...My husband and I do Easter baskets for one another, and this year he gave me mine early since I’ll be gone. In the basket was the usual, dark choco bunny, Starburst jelly beans, and then some Swiftie stuff from Etsy, a fidget toy, and really surprisingly he got me three full bottles of perfumes that were on my wish list.AITA for telling my son that we don't really have any room for him right now so he needs to live with his dad and stepmom. My ex-husband and I divorced when my son was ten. My ex had found someone new. We went for 50/50 custody but he still had to pay some child support. I went back to school at that time.ADMIN MOD. AITAH For telling my husband's secret? My (29f) husband, Charles (30m) went to his brother, Frank's (28m) bachelor party last weekend. Frank's fiancée, Jess (26f) was very vocal about her boundaries. She did not want him to go to a strip club because she finds it disrespectful and unnecessary. Jess is a very good friend of mine and ...Aita for telling my son that we don't really have any room for him right now so he needs to live with his dad and stepmom? #reels #RedditAITA #redditaita #aitareddit #redditpostThe husband has lived in their apartment for a number of years. The owners recently sold it and the new ones are moving in, so my daughter and her husband have to move. The problem is rents have gone up dramatically.I then got a phonecall from mom and she didn't sound okay. She asked wether or not my husband took money from his family before they attended the cookout. I was confused I asked what she was talking about and she told me that my husband charged every single person from my side of family who attended the event $25 dollars.It sounds like you are forced to ask your family for money because your husband keeps such a tight rein on the money. This is a very outdated and inappropriate way to be handling household finances. Although you do not directly earn income, you are contributing to the household in non-financial ways and your husband's money IS your money.AITA for telling my husband to talk to his mother re: our newborn. My husband and I just had our first child together after a couple years of trying and dealing with infertility. Our son came early, a month and a half - we spent three weeks in the NICU and it was a very emotional time for me/us. Fast forward and we are now home and getting used ...8.7K Likes, 189 Comments. TikTok video from redditlisa (@redditlisa): “AITA for telling my husband. My money is mine? #storytime #reddit #redditstories #fyp …AITA: for yelling at my husband that my cancer isn't a choice. Not the A-hole. Eversince I (female31) got diagnosed with cancer (breast cancer) months ago, My husband had to come home from his business stay that lasted for neatly 8 months. He cancelled his contract with the company and got replaced. He drives me to the hospital and takes care ...She asked wether or not my husband took money from his family before they attended the cookout. I was confused I asked what she was talking about and she told me that my husband charged every single person from my side of family who attended the event $25 dollars. I was utterly shocked and very angry and felt like this has legitimately damaged …A little back story. My wife and I met at 21. We've been very happy together every since. We got married at 28 when she was pregnant with our daughter. I work full time in a very high stress but lucrative field. My wife stays home to take care of our little girl and the household. We are both 33.So I finally straight up told her she will never have as happy a marriage with him as I have with my love. Specifically because she married someone who doesnt even like her, much less love her. I told her she can't change trash into gold by force & to have a marriage like mine she needs a husband like mine.Obviously I never had the chance to tell him about my millions, which is honestly the only "good" thing that happened. Divorce is 99% certain, as well as the next few weeks/months will being very very rough. I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically.I had a miscarriage on Christmas while staying with my parents. I had to tell my parents what was going on, and it was awkward enough. I can't imagine having to explain to my in-laws that I had a ton of bloody mucous coming out of my vagina, let alone some stranger. OP's husband needs to kick his friend out. This is not a time for houseguests.Pay your taxes, track late penalties, and request tax transcripts all in one place. If you owe the IRS money, they certainly don’t want you to forget about it. That’s why the agenc...My cousin’s husband owes my husband six figures and he asked to borrow an additional £10,000. I admittedly only found out because I eavesdropped on their conversation. After my cousin’s husband left, I asked my husband if my cousin knew he owed him so much money. My husband told me she didn’t and that I shouldn’t get involved.ADMIN MOD. UPDATE - AITA for telling my husband his “fragile masculinity” is costing us money? Previous Post. Craig and I were able to put the issue regarding the …So, Anyways! My husband and I took 2 weeks off work to go visit some places out of the country - tourism in other words. Thing is I was the one who saved up for and arranged for the trip (my husband was responsible for booking the tickets). My husband's mom wanted to come along and threw temper tantrums when I said no. She called, texted, sent ...AITA for telling my husband to stop spending so much money on his dead girlfriend’s younger sister? I (28F) have been with my husband (34M) for almost a decade. We have three children (6F, 3M, 2F) together, and we are currently expecting our fourth child. He is an amazing father to our kids and I couldn't ask for a better husband. He also has ...My husband has a history of mental health concerns surrounding depression and anxiety. He is medicated and although saw a therapist for a decade, he does not see one now. ... AITA for telling my dad that I'm still traumatized from my past to the point where I don't even want to talk to him anymore.ETA again: he signed a pre-nup. I owned the house long before we started dating. I withdrew MY $23k from the bank and put it in my personal. I already spoke to an attorney and I'm in the clear to do so because I have a paper trail on what was mine vs what was his. I'm an accountant. Numbers and money is kind of my specialty.AITA for telling my husband his fragile masculinity is costing us money? Practical-Drama-5549 writes: Back in late 2021, my husband Craig (M46) and I (F44) …For my mom and for the women he cheated on her with, it was about just getting what he wanted: children because his first wife who he cheated on then with my mom when he first met my mom couldn't have children. My mom gave my dad two sons, eldest dying so I just have one older brother, and me, who he wanted to abort because I was a girl!Recently my stepdaughter and her mom have been going through rough times. Her mom had another child with her new husband, at one point my stepdaughter and her mom had such a bad fight that her mom attempted to end parental rights. Even if this were to occur, I couldn't imagine trying to replace her mom.. GlumMushroom9804. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my wifYup. My parents married in 1956. My mother h Many people wanted an update, so here it is. After I gave my husband space, I confronted him about his trips with my brother. He agreed to be honest with me about their relationship. As some of you suspected, Matt knew when we first met that I was Tony's sister and started dating me to get close to Tony again. The glass ceiling is sadly still alive and holding wom It only became a bigger deal this past May. My daughter told me she had decided to do community college in her mom's home town so she could be close to her grandparents for a while, and could still follow her dreams. Ashley then brought up how some of that money could go to my stepdaughter. I told her no. Skm8315. ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my husband t...
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