It's been 4 weeks since I post the original story. Since then, my parents have trued to rally our relatives (uncles, aunts, cousins and our grandparents) to gang up on my brother and SIL to pressure them to have a biological child, preferably male. However their plan has failed miserably. Most of the relatives told them they were being crazy.I get to stay home by myself for a week of peace and quiet. My parents were very mad at me for losing my passport. The money they spent on my flight and entrance was wasted. Darn. My mom and sister have both been posting about how hard it is to be at Disneyland with two little ones. They both posted that I ruined the vacation by being so ...My brother Casey (32 y.o.) is much older than me (17 y.o.) He's married to my sister-in-law Mandy (36 y.o.) and they have two kids; My nephew Nick (3 ½ y.o.) and my niece Mya (2 y.o.) Mandy recently asked my parents if I could babysit Nick and Mya, since Mandy wanted to visit her mom and the original babysitter canceled last minute.By the time we arrived there were about 20 people there. My sisters and their husbands were already solidly buzzed. Drunk really. My mom was spending 100% of her time trying to keep the nieces & nephews (ages 7 to 11) more or less under control. My dad had strategically retreated to the whirlpool part of the pool with small cooler full of beers.Against many people, I think that the blame for OP excluding the niece falls more on her parents. If they were truthful, niece would understand and not feel excluded. It would be clear that her uncle was civil with them because of the rest of the family, but didn't like them. OP felt slighted that someone from this family would ask him for money.Honestly, niece needs to know why the man her teacher keeps bringing in is causing OP such a stir. She's 13, and that's old enough to understand it without all the details. Explain that he caused the accident that killed her parents, and was sent to jail for it. The drunk driving can be explained later, when niece is driving and near drinking age.Vast-Explorer-8339. ADMIN MOD. AITA for not babysitting my niece? Not the A-hole. This is my fifth time trying to post this so please bare with me. I am 21F, my niece is 4F, My BIL is 30M and my sister is 28F. From the minute my sister gave birth she has been teaching her daughter consent, that she can say no to anything, that she is not ...I (37M) have been married to my wife (39F) for almost 10 years. We have four kids under between 3-7. My MIL and SIL are not fond of me and I have a very rough relationship with that side of the family. Things are usually civil but there was a fight that recently caused a very big argument and threats to go no contact. My bio niece (19) was ...American Airlines invited us to spend a night at its operations center learning how the airline runs. Sleep is a precious commodity as the parent of a toddler. So when I got an inv...r/AmItheAsshole. r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.1.6M subscribers in the AITAH community. this is a community like r/AmITheAsshole except unlike that subreddit here you can post interpersonal…Now fast forward 9 years later, I am 26 almost 27, married and soon to be father of a beautiful baby girl. When we found out we were having a girl, I asked my wife what she thought about naming our daughter after my late sister. She was on board. We also picked out a middle name that meant a lot to my wife's family. So ofc we were all happy.My parents told my sister, and she called to blow up at me that I'll be ruining the vacation if I'm off doing my own thing while she has to wrangle her three boys. That's a laugh. She's admitting she's ruining your vacation so as not to ruin her own! They're her kids and her responsibility. NTA.My parents said they did some thinking and they are willing to let her stay under one condition: she needs to contribute and not just with household chores. She …ADMIN MOD. AITA for taking my niece (15f) to get waxed behind her moms back? I come from a family of VERY hairy, and very fair skinned women. The hair is thick, and very dark. Hair removal has always been a common topic of discussion amongst us all throughout our lives, many of my aunts, siblings and cousin have spent tons on laser hair removal ...My little brother graduated last year and got into the same school. Rather than stay in dorms he convinced my parents to let him move in with me. Well they own it so I had no say. I lasted one semester. Since he had an off campus residence my apartment became party central. I asked my parents to make him stop after talking to him didn't work.My brother Casey (32 y.o.) is much older than me (17 y.o.) He's married to my sister-in-law Mandy (36 y.o.) and they have two kids; My nephew Nick (3 ½ y.o.) and my niece Mya (2 y.o.) Mandy recently asked my parents if I could babysit Nick and Mya, since Mandy wanted to visit her mom and the original babysitter canceled last minute.AITA for refusing to reconcile with my bio sister, after she falsely accused me of SA ... My parents asked me about what she could be talking about and the only "incident" was when I was 11 I said something inappropriate in-front of her that I learned on the internet. I got apprehended for it and was taught my lesson.I wrap the food up. I leave to give my niece the gift from Mark. After Mark and I finish re-baking a cake I spent hours on, the party continues. After the party is over, I start yelling at Mark in anger and he apologizes, so I let him go, apologizing for being so mad. After Mark leaves, Sarah yells at me and calls me an asshole for making Mark ...Pretty much, when my mom came to my room to talk to me about what I said, I'd already decided I was going to apologize, you guys made it clear I needed to do that much. She asked if I meant what I said about Ari being a better mom than her or if I just said it to hurt her. It is true I said it was because I was upset she doesn't want me to go ...Q&A. •. r/AmITheAsshole voting guide here. I promised my niece a senior trip, and she chose to use the trip to visit her dad (someone I disapprove of). When I found out, I refused to pay, which could make me an AH because she says my gift was coming with strings attached (she should be able to choose however to spend the money).They go to the same school and when the bus comes, the daughter will not wake my niece up. My brother and girlfriend start work early in the morning. I will come over after my shift and take niece into school. The daughter made a terrible statement about how my niece doesn't have a mother figure in her life and will not share hers. It's ...r/AITA in todays am I the a**hole stories, op has been contacted by a family member to adopt their niece and nephews after they had been put into the foster ...My brothers had their first children at 20 and 21, I thought it was ridiculously young and while I may joke to my niece about how we were mistakes (I also wasn't planned, there's a very large age gap between my siblings and I). I would never say something like that to my brothers because their children made our lives better.I don't even own my bed. I packed up my clothes and my laptop and I went to work like usual. I work out of town for 14 days then I get 7 days off. While I was at work I booked an all inclusive for my week off. It cost me less than rent and food at my parents house. I told my parents my plans and they were cool with it.AITA for kicking out my parents for never telling me about my half-sister. Posted 5mo ago (5 Jan 2022): ... Just imagining how much different the future now looks for the yet-to-arrive niece/nephew...so many feels. 😭😭😭 ... The dad being uninvolved yet remorseful and even admitting OOP is better than him, I think the mother is possibly ...My parents already tried going to the bank and demanding access, but thankfully, bank employees turned them away as they require my written consent for access. I'm not giving up my sister's savings unless she (sister) wishes so, and I'm not going to allow parents to track my sister's spending.UPDATE. Hello everyone, A few years ago I posted this here on AITA, about my sister making a fuss about my niece not being the flower girl at my wedding. No one has asked for it, but I wanted to share this update anyway, because you guys really helped out a lot. So I took a few peoples advice about having both my niece and my then fiancé's ...I'm close to my siblings and nieces/nephews, and my niece Anne (26) is getting married soon. I've been helping out a lot with the organization and everyone is excited for it, as it's the first proper wedding within my siblings kids. Liz caught wind that we were helping Anne and will obviously attend her wedding.And second,b it doesn't completely leave him out. I'd also leave your sister and BIL a snarky amount each, like $4.20. (I've had a trust and a will created and intentionally left my brother out of it, so I left him $1.00) I'd also recommend gifting your niece money while you're alive. Put it into an irrevocable trust.NTA - your niece sounds extremely spoilt. Her parents are clearly enabling her and honestly sound like they're extremely emotional if they get that upset just because somebody asked their daughter to use a different bathroom. They need to work on their own emotional maturity so they can parent their child better. 42.Yesterday was my niece's first birthday and originally the plan for the cake was for my father-in-law to buy a store-bought cake. When my father-in-law mentioned he was buying a store-bought cake for the party I asked if I could bake the birthday cake and smash cake instead. My father-in-law was thrilled at the idea and requested that it be a ...Smaller example: this year my niece graduated from high school. My sister had seats for everyone but me. She didn't have everyone sit anywhere near where my chair could go. She got pissed at my mom because my mom sat with me so I wouldn't be sitting alone… alone in my wheelchair with crippling anxiety that often leads to panic attacks in ...My parents said they did some thinking and they are willing to let her stay under one condition: she needs to contribute and not just with household chores. She …I knew my mother, I lived with my mother for 15 years, then she was gone. died due to natural causes.(well semi, nothing bad just a mix) so my entire identity was changed, I went from two alive parents to half an orphan (mum raised me, divorced home, step-father was/is a joke) being shipped around basically until I was forced to move 1200 miles ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.Liza and Cole also have kids. Liza has a son(M7) and Cole has 2 kids(M9 and F6). I like them but I admit I don't love them the same way I love Melina. Last night we were all invited to Cole's house. I had to work late so I would go there a bit later than everyone else. I stopped on my way to buy something because I didn't want to go there empty ...No no no no no. YOU choose to have the baby. It is best to have a baby in YOUR room until later, it helps Mom, it helps baby, and it lowers chance of SIDS. YOU are the one that has to deal with baby being a baby. Your daughter, however, should not. If you do make a nursery, you don't take your daughter's room to do so.Western-Echidna-5626. ADMIN MOD. AITA for dumping my Gf after she expected me to pay for EVRYONE on her birthday. Advice Needed. I 24M and my GF 24F, have been dating for four years. On my girlfriend's 24th birthday two weeks ago, I booked a table at a pretty nice restaurant for me, her, and four of her friends.ADMIN MOD. AITA for expecting my wife to support my elderly parents. Asshole. My wife has a high-paying job and earns significantly more than I do. I work as a teacher and make around 40k, while she works in the private sector and makes £300-400k after tax. We split our finances equitably, with her paying 70% to my 30%.When they do, you can become foster parents, take them in, and receive a monthly stipend to support them. I'm not familiar with your state's foster guidelines, but in my state they'd each receive $600-$722 a month. Additionally, they may receive a yearly clothing allowance.Yes the account is virtual but the time spent on it isn't. And if the neopets account has no value or is just a game then your niece doesn't need your account as her account is the same. Pewdiepie/Jack Septic Eye/Ninja etc made millions from playing games, but i bet your family think they need 'real' jobs. Reply reply.The definition of immediate family includes parents, step-parents, spouses, children, step-children, siblings, in-laws, sibling in-laws, grandparents, great-grandparents, step-grea...My niece adopted them and my sister treats them as if they don't exist (she has one child of her own who was 4 when she married). My niece told sis she treats them all the same or she sees none. Sis seemed to comply. Greatniece told my niece that Gramma says she doesn't have to let the others play with Her toys. That was it.Asking a 12 year old to babysit in an emergency situation is inappropriate (perhaps for short term instances, but not indefinitely). Telling your niece that you only adopted her so that she could be your permanent free babysitter is beyond monstrous. I hope she gets to go live with someone else.Service ended around 430 and everyone was told to go to the reception. The wedding party had a limo to take them and a separate limo took the parents, grandparents, siblings. The couple is young and decided against family in the wedding party lol. It was 4 sorority sisters and fraternity brothers on each side. My wife and I drove.Liza and Cole also have kids. Liza has a son(M7) and Cole has 2 kids(M9 and F6). I like them but I admit I don't love them the same way I love Melina. Last night we were all invited to Cole's house. I had to work late so I would go there a bit later than everyone else. I stopped on my way to buy something because I didn't want to go there empty ...EllaEllaEm said: NTA because you were not lying to Sue. Sue asked you a question directly and you told her the truth. Her parents didn't like that you told her the truth, but that's on them because they want to/need to lie to her (about Santa and about how the world works). Sue is a person independent to her parents.JacquesBN. ADMIN MOD. AITA for not giving my daughter her education fund money? Asshole. I (54M) have two children (23F and 21M) with my wife (52F). When the kids were young, my parents set up education funds for both of them, which was very generous of them. My wife and I always expected our kids to attend college and then graduate school, as ...Today, my sister came into my room yelling at me saying my niece has been having night terrors and it's my fault. She's been fussing to my mom and dad about it all day and now they want me to play kid friendly games or no games at all. i told them no one else is to blame but my sister because she allows my niece to come into my room or she ...AITA For Pressing Charges On My Niece And Making My Sister Pay #niece #sister #family #parents #children #aita #reddit #stories"AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.My husband and I checked our security footage you could clearly see Emily and someone else vandalizing the car. My husband gave the video copy to the police and Emily and her friend got arrested next morning. My sister and mom came to my house screaming that I was ruining my nieces life and if I loved her I would drop the charges.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...NTA. You have learned that you can not rely on your parents for emotional or financial support. That is unfortunate bad news but it is better to realize it so you can heal from it. You need to learn that it is not your fault and that you deserve better. Healing is about learning that you are not the one who is broken.So I bought it and on Saturday I was watching my niece for my sister and BIL. I gave my niece the toy and she loved it. She really liked the squeaker, too. So Saturday rolls around, niece is have a blast with Lammy 2.0, and my sister and BIL walk in the door. Of course my niece runs up to her parents and shows them her new toy.Yes, Jane and Tom had two (bio) children together. Unless they changed their minds Jane and Tom had every intention of never telling Laura and didn't think it was a big deal since the family medical history would still be the same. UPDATE: Laura reached out to me and my parents. She's safe and with her girlfriend.ADMIN MOD. AITA for telling my niece about her mom's past? Not the A-hole. My (38F) sister, Lauren (42F), had a pretty wild youth. I did too, so no judgement on my part. When Lauren was 18, she got pregnant and chose to get an abortion. This was her wake up call. She went to college, later got a great job and found her husband.AITA for taking my niece and nephew to a family reunion without telling their parents? I (22F) have a brother (27M) who married his wife (25F) in June 2021. My SIL was previously married and has a daughter (4F) who goes every week with her dad. ... She told me her parents said we could have a sleepover and left them on the porch. I texted them ...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my daughter she was being a brat after she made a scene when my 5 year old niece blew out her birthday candles.Reddit | 61K views, 375 likes, 5 loves, 67 comments, 10 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Virl video: Reddit Stories - Aita for admitting that my...Not the A-hole. I, f36 recently got engaged to my fiancé, m34. He's in the military and has an extended family. He's close to his sister and 21 year old niece (his bil is deceased) When I met his niece, she seemed sweet but kept making passive agressive comments about me. like how I look older than my fiancé, how we're incompitable just due ...r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.You absolutely are the AH. You let your niece push your daughter out of your life and you blatantly favor her. Just because she still has her mother doesn't mean your daughter doesn't deserve her real, actual FATHER to pay attention to her and take her places. You should be treating them equally.Pretty much, when my mom came to my room to talk to me about what I said, I'd already decided I was going to apologize, you guys made it clear I needed to do that much. She asked if I meant what I said about Ari being a better mom than her or if I just said it to hurt her. It is true I said it was because I was upset she doesn't want me to go ...NTA - the child isn't your responsibility. They decided to have them they need to take care of the child not the "roommate" it's just so weird she felt you were obligated to do so. Her and her husband need to work out whatever they need to do to care for their child.Quirky-Savings8676. ADMIN MOD. AITA for rejection my nieces adoption request in front of people? Not the A-hole. My niece (14) has lived with me since her parents went to prison 5 years ago. Drugs. My sister is getting out later this year. She has been working very hard in prison to improve herself and got her GED.NTA. Your sister openly admitted she wants you around for your money, not because she wants you and your niblings to build an actual relationship with each other. Your sister is a real piece of work. It's good to see your niece gets a positive relationship of some kind with her mother's side of the family.Myself (26) & my partner (32) are child-free & wish to remain so. Both of our families know this. Recently, my partners brother & SIL passed away in a car accident leaving their son (12) & their daughter (9) behind. My partners parents have been watching them for months but they cannot do this full time as they are in their 70s & have bad health.My parents weren't much help either, they would give me about $100 a month for Luke, and if you have a kid then you know it's not much. Me and my grandmother were the only ones to take care of him. A year after I graduated from highschool I was kicked out with my nephew because my parents, sister, and her husband didn't want to deal with us ...My sister gets really dodgy cell reception and I did send her a message before stopping, but I didn't get a reply and made the call to stop anyway. She is pissed that I gave in, especially since I know already what they are trying to do. I feel like this was once and if anything it just tells my niece I'm a pushover but not her parents.AITA for Blocking My Parents After They Pressured Me to Give Up Custody of My Niece? - YouTube. AITA for Blocking My Parents After They Pressured Me to Give Up Custody of My...NTA - the child isn't your responsibility. They decided to have them they need to take care of the child not the "roommate" it's just so weird she felt you were obligated to do so. Her and her husband need to work out whatever they need to do to care for their child.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My action to be judged is screaming at and banning my SIL and niece from my home because they destroyed my houseplants.AITA for favoring my nephew over my niece? Asshole. My sister is a single mom with an 8 year old daughter who is an absolute nightmare. She doesn't behave in public and throws tantrums when even the slightest thing doesn't go her way. She'll also scream, throw things and use words that no 8 year old should know.MOD. AITA: Keeping my kids away from my parents. Asshole. My wife (35F) and I (37M) have two sons, 3yr and 9mon. My parents were very much involved with supporting our family and babysat our first born when my wife went back to work. My brother and his wife are having their baby in a month. My brother is the golden child of our family where he ...My fiancé said no, she can sit with my sister and parents. At this point, I insisted and said Brynn would be flower girl. I texted my sister and asked, she agreed. My fiancé got pissed and I said it's my day too, Brynn means a great deal to me and she'll be in the wedding. My fiancée and Aubrey's mom are mad at me, saying I'm ...Update May 19th, 2024. I (24F) was recently engaged to my (26M) fiancé after 6 years together. We got into a fight a couple of days ago because he wouldn’t let me ask my guy best friend (24M) who I’ve known since we were kids, be my man of honor. I ended up walking out and went to stay with my parents for a few days.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I forced my parents to choose between me and my exwife/ex best friend even though that meant they could potentially lose their chance to meet a pay and harm their friendship with my ex wife ...I don't even own my bed. I packed up my clothes and my laptop and I went to work like usual. I work out of town for 14 days then I get 7 days off. While I was at work I booked an all inclusive for my week off. It cost me less than rent and food at my parents house. I told my parents my plans and they were cool with it.97.8K Likes, 1.9K Comments. TikTok video from RedditTalkies (@reddittalkies): “AITA For not inviting my parents or sister to my graduation because I didn't want to deal with the disappointment? #redditstories #reddittalkies”. original sound - …[Reddit AITA] AITA For Admitting That My Parents And My Neice Is The Reason Why I Left? Reddit Again - AITA. 194 subscribers. 608. 29K views 2 years ago …. AITAH for not treating my niece and nephewUPDATE: AITA for kicking out my parents for never telling me abo AITA for giving my niece/nephew books that conflict with their parents' beliefs? My sibling is married with one child: "Jamie.". Both my sibling & I loved reading from a young age. When Jamie was in utero I gave my sibling & their spouse (hereafter S&S) about 20 books with "mommy & daddy" themes. I've continued to give books as gifts ...For cutting my niece off college fund because of what she said about me. I'm just going to be direct and quick. I (M35) have 2 sisters that I'm close with, I also have a niece (Leah), Leah's 16 and after my ex wife decided to split up and divorce due to inferitility problems that lasted for 5 years. I started a college fund for Leah to help her ... AITA for not seeing my niece and nephew. I And second,b it doesn't completely leave him out. I'd also leave your sister and BIL a snarky amount each, like $4.20. (I've had a trust and a will created and intentionally left my brother out of it, so I left him $1.00) I'd also recommend gifting your niece money while you're alive. Put it into an irrevocable trust. My niece is terrible to be honest. She screams all da...
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