AITA For 'abandoning' my 2 year old niece? I'm a 19F and I recently moved to Nevada to be with my parents. I left behind a 43M half-brother behind (Kevin) and SIL (Debby), from my father's side of the family, who has my two year old niece (Taylor). My half-brother was an incel for lack of better wording towards other women and often displayed ...My fiancée Lisa & I were spending some days at my older brother's house. He has a daughter, Cheyenne (16 F). Yesterday, Cheyenne and her friends were hanging out inside while my brother and his wife were out. Some time later, I heard what sounded like an argument from the others' room & went to check.ADMIN MOD. AITA for ‘clearly’ favoring my nephew over my niece? Not the A-hole. My brother (43m) has 2 kids, my niece Miley (17f) and my nephew Noah (18m). I (26f) have found my personality aligns better with Noah’s than Miley’s, but I still treat them equal for the most part. For example, when it was Miley’s sweet sixteen I got her a ...Turn around and firmly but calmly tell her, that your niece and nephew are in your care and they are your responsibility, so therefore by her wording your not responsible for your nephew, her son, so she can pay for her son to have a tutor if she really wants him to have access to one. 1. GothPenguin.After baby Liam was born, my sister set up these cut photo shoots for Ellie and Liam and she involved Ellie in the pregnancy, which was something Ellie resisted doing. But my sister basically gave her no choice. When Liam was 1 my sister found out that Ellie and her BFF Hazel were talking about the new half siblings in their lives."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.r/AmItheAsshole. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.AITA Am I the asshole for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted? A bit of backstory I, 39f, am a twin. Growing up my sister who I’ll call Tanha, grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that didn’t mean it didn’t hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.Discuss uninviting your parents with her and get on the same page. Then if you decide to let them back in at some point discuss boundaries and enforce them. Talk disrespectfully about you/your fiancé you'll leave immediately and they're on a timeout for 1 month and then timeout will continue until apology is made.Fragrant-Pin1010. AITA for refusing to bake for my 'niece's birthday party? Not the A-hole. Niece is in quotation marks because it's my step sisters child. I (24F) didn't grow up with my step siblings Kyle and Kameah (24M&F) so i barely known up. I lived in another country with my mother and moved to my dad's country a year ago for a ...Adoptive parents do need to be careful about changing names without the child's input, which a 2 and 4 year old cannot really provide. Harlot could be subsituted for something close but more appropriate like Harlow, and Cujo could have been left until both kids were old enough to provide input. Harriet would work too.And second,b it doesn't completely leave him out. I'd also leave your sister and BIL a snarky amount each, like $4.20. (I've had a trust and a will created and intentionally left my brother out of it, so I left him $1.00) I'd also recommend gifting your niece money while you're alive. Put it into an irrevocable trust.Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my Aunt and Uncle that their 8 year old is not good enough at art to sell it, and explicitly that mine is more important.Ambitious-Twist-6234. •. For a BOY, your sister and niece decided to be "mean" to your fiance's daughter and even cornered her, for a fcking BOY. And why would they think that you are RESPONSIBLE for your niece's college, you can offer to HELP, but it's NEVER YOUR OBLIGATION to send her to college.ADMIN MOD. AITA for uninviting my niece and nephew to family dinners? Not the A-hole. Once a month we have my husbands family over for a family dinner. His family consists of a few brothers and sisters, his mom and dad, and his nieces and nephews. We also have a few children of our own. When we have our dinners almost everyone shows up, except ...After my niece "Claire" (19f) was born I was so happy to take her home but after three months my sister said that she and the father got back together and wanted their daughter back. Things did not go down well and since she was the biological mother, legally, she had every right to change her mind and our parents were on her side.Wife Update - 14th May 2024. AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece. My sister and bil were abusive parents to my niece, Charlotte. I always tried to protect her, but my wife and I were only able to get custody threw years ago. We adopted her, and she's a good kid at heart, but she still struggles a lot.AITA Am I the asshole for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted? A bit of backstory I, 39f, am a twin. Growing up my sister who I’ll call Tanha, grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that didn’t mean it didn’t hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.You absolutely are the AH. You let your niece push your daughter out of your life and you blatantly favor her. Just because she still has her mother doesn't mean your daughter doesn't deserve her real, actual FATHER to pay attention to her and take her places. You should be treating them equally.bittercherriess. AITA for refusing to call my niece by her actual name because it's terrible. Asshole. My brother and his girlfriend had a baby girl two months ago. I didn't visit her in the hospital due to the restrictions but I quickly found out that they named her Celexa. One google search will tell you that is the name of an ...Reddit Stories - Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are ... ... Video. HomeThere will be other children at this party, around 20 of them ranging from 11 down to newborn. My nieces invited me, and then my sister changed dates, so it's no longer on my kid free weekend. She then contacted me saying "you will have to get a babysitter for those 2." My other children are invited (19/13/6yo).My [20m] older sister [32f] and her husband have an 8-year-old niece, who I adore. She’s smart, extremely precocious, and very funny. She’s also, simply put, very unfortunate looking. Neither her parents are ugly, but she received the worst possible combination of their features. Maybe in time she’ll grow into it with time, but currently ...As the holiday season comes into full swing shopping behavior among consumers is projected to shrink with in-store purchases. This according to research by BlueVenn. More than half...Welcome to r/AmITheAsshole.Please view our voting guide here, and remember to use only one judgement in your comment.. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I am taking my children on holiday because some of them aren't invited to my nieces birthday party, rather than specifically excluding 2 of them.My ex however is calling me an AH and says that i always favor Claire but thats not true so AITA? Edit: can yall stop assuming so many horribe things about Claire? she is just a kid and the girls fight like all siblings do. Sometimes its even Wendy who starts the fights. No one is bullying anyone here.ADMIN MOD. AITA for only treating my niece, and not her brother, to a fancy dinner? Not the A-hole. My sister, Sara, has 2 twin children- for the sake of anonymity I'll name them Claire and John. They're both seniors in high school , in which college decisions were recently released. Claire decided to commit to Ohio University and her brother ...A ton of drugs and casual sex and I didn't grow up locked in my parents house. Everyone's looking at this like OP's niece is some angel being held back by her wicked parents, when in reality she's an 18 year old girl who's life could easily careen down many different paths due to her unresolved trauma.I also am well aware that I was the only one keeping my niece(8) and especially my nephew (10 in march) from being beaten by my parents. My mother even told me that if I in her words "cannot find a way to get him to behave they will keep beating him because thats the only way to get him to listen."Long story short, when my sister and niece arrived yesterday and after I helped them get settled in, I told them that there's only one rule that I have for staying in my house: My office is off limits. Fast forward a few hours and Everything's fine and dandy, I'm just sitting on the couch with my sister, watching a movie, until I get a call ...Seriously. Without your dad being present. Please talk to your school counselor or a teacher who you trust. Your school should have a counselor who you can talk to privately every week or so. Ask your dad to set up a therapist for you and be sure to tell the therapist that you want privacy in your sessions.ADMIN MOD. AITA for banning my niece from my wedding? Not the A-hole. So I'm getting married (yay!) in a month and I'm kind of torn on an issue. My sister, Sarah* had her first kid, Ava* 2 years ago and she's great. The first grandchild of the family so of course she's adored by everyone.I was about 19 when she was born, so there is a very large age gap between us, so I tend to treat her more as my niece than as my cousin, as she's about the age of my nieces and nephews (on my ...My fiancé thinks I should stand up to my parents and insist on only going if she is invited since we have been together a while, live together, and are engaged. She says it’s showing that I don’t view her as family and that I’m saying the wishes of my parents still mean more than what she wants. I explained that’s not true at all.My niece, Eliza who is 9 and my nephew Charlie, who is 4. (These are fake names) Charlie is a loud rowdy boy and is constantly getting into things and blaming his sister for his behavior. Eliza is the opposite. Part of this is due to her parents having to spend more time watching Charlie. Due to this, Eliza is almost never the center of attention.The minute Rae got home, Sue ran to her crying and screaming that I told her Santa wasn’t real. Rae tried to calm her down and told her of course Santa was real and I was lying. When Rae put Sue down for a nap (yes, you read that right), she scolded me. She said I had no business trying to parent her child.A few days after I made that post, my sister and I had a chat about what a messy situation it was. She told me she was ashamed to be bringing my niece up torn between me and her grandparents. She always wanted my niece to have grandparents, so she was clinging to an idea of them rather than the actual shit parents they are. Basically, my sister ...My fiancée Lisa & I were spending some days at my older brother's house. He has a daughter, Cheyenne (16 F). Yesterday, Cheyenne and her friends were hanging out inside while my brother and his wife were out. Some time later, I heard what sounded like an argument from the others' room & went to check.NTA. Your sister openly admitted she wants you around for your money, not because she wants you and your niblings to build an actual relationship with each other. Your sister is a real piece of work. It's good to see your niece gets a positive relationship of some kind with her mother's side of the family.I told my sister her stepkids aren't the problem and that my niece needs help to deal with things. I do believe my niece needs more help than she received with her initial therapy sessions. But maybe it wasn't my place to speak up, maybe I'm not looking at things the way I should."AITA for favoring one niece over her twin and admitting to it when confronted?" Accurate-Tie9003. A bit of backstory: I , 39f, am a twin. Growing up, my sister who I'll call Tanha grew uncomfortable with being a twin. In a way I do get it, but that doesn't mean it didn't hurt. Tanha married Jason, 42m, 20 years ago.My husband had a drug addict older sister26 who has 2 daughters of her own, ages 9 and 6. We've only met the girls a few times. No one knows who the fathers are. My husbands sister passed away three weeks ago, and the girls are currently staying in a foster home. My MIL was pressuring for us to take them.ADMIN MOD. AITA for only taking my nieces in and not their dad after my sister passed away? Not the A-hole. My F,33 sister F,36 passed away a month ago because of cancer. It's devastating and words can't express how we feel. Her husband struggled to pay off debts and has asked me and my husband to take him and my nieces age, 13 & 16 in for some ...And of course if not for all those who commented on my first post I probably would have told Mom the surgery date. Oh my goodness I am wonderful at procrastination. I finished typing this update on September 12th. Today is September 16th. I spoke with my mom on the phone again.AITA For Pressing Charges On My Niece And Making My Sister Pay #niece #sister #family #parents #children #aita #reddit #storiesFlimsy-Footwear. Aita for kicking my niece out and filing a police report? My 17 yo niece came to live with me my husband and two kids (10f and 3f) in November. She was living with her boyfriend who ended up cheating on her and she doesn't get along with her mom, my sister. Upon moving in i knew she could be a handful so the night she moved ...It's not a matter of "numerous valuable items". Depending on the Rolex's and how many were taken we're talking about $5,000-$40,000 which is a serious felony. Some Rolex's go for a couple thousand but some go for over $20,000. What her niece and accomplices did is prison time felony law breaking even for first time offenders.ADMIN. AITA for not buying my niece groceries and filling up her car? Asshole. I’ll try to make this short. I have a niece who lives in my city. She is the only child from my brother’s first marriage, which ended, mercifully, in divorce (just like his second). My brother was not much of a father and, after the divorce, was never around and ...These kids are 13 and 16 - easily old enough for week long camp trips. My parents sent my brother and I to week long camps before we were even teenagers. Just sounds like the brother wants it all for free. My guess is that he wouldn't even offer to pay OP for any of the increased expenses.They go to the same school and when the bus comes, the daughter will not wake my niece up. My brother and girlfriend start work early in the morning. I will come over after my shift and take niece into school. The daughter made a terrible statement about how my niece doesn’t have a mother figure in her life and will not share hers. It’s ...AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...It's a freaking ice cream cone. I'm sure you've been bribed with things much worse than that as a kid. And if you were that worried about it, you could have just taken her to the ice cream shop after school and gotten her a cone then. I'm sure that would have made the separation anxiety a little easier. 3.For example, I found that my niece sneaked into my study and drew all over my wall when she was four. I was understanding that she's a child. I did not get upset in front of her. I calmly had my wife take her out and away. I had a massive anxiety attack over having my space interfered with. It's very clean the way I like it.Aita for admitting that my parents and niece what are the reason that I left. Throwaway. I (29 m) have a niece (19f), and as the title says, she and my parents are a massive reason why I moved away. When she was a little kid, she was unbelievably disrespectful, and just downright mean. She would literally scream, yell, if no one was around she ...Long story short, when my sister and niece arrived yesterday and after I helped them get settled in, I told them that there's only one rule that I have for staying in my house: My office is off limits. Fast forward a few hours and Everything's fine and dandy, I'm just sitting on the couch with my sister, watching a movie, until I get a call ...OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: My family hasn't cared about my birthday since I was three. So I skip most family events. Including my father's 80th birthday. I might be the asshole for not making an effort to care about such a trivial thing as an adult birthday party.He began with the inciting incident. "My (43-male) wife (41-female) recently had her brother and his wife pass away following an accident.". "My wife and her brother were not on good terms at the time of his passing due to an argument they had in august.". "My BIL/SIL left behind 2 children, our niece (9) and nephew (11).".Pretty much, when my mom came to my room to talk to me about what I said, I'd already decided I was going to apologize, you guys made it clear I needed to do that much. She asked if I meant what I said about Ari being a better mom than her or if I just said it to hurt her. It is true I said it was because I was upset she doesn't want me to go ...ADMIN MOD. AITA for helping my niece run away. Not the A-hole. I (F30) helped my niece (F16) run away. I live around 4 hours away from my brother, his wife and his children (including my niece). I have personally cut off that part of the family due to their misogyny. When I was 13, I went to my brother asking his opinion on this cute feminist ...On that same day it was my niece's wedding. My other daughter is one of her closest friends and was one of the bridesmaids. I scheduled to visit my daughter in prison for her birthday and prior I told my niece that I could only make it to the church wedding but not the reception and paying for the meal there, I'd be going after the wedding.AITA for dropping my niece out the window when my SIL forced be to babysit : r/AmITheAngel. Go to AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. r/AmITheAngel. A place to satirize, crosspost from, poke fun at, and hold meta discussions on the never-ending ridiculous stories and creative writing exercises from AITA and AITA-adjacent subs, including classic tales ...AITA for refusing to support niece’s lifestyle | for not wanting parents to adopt another teen girl - YouTube. TTSReads Reddit Stories. 10K subscribers. …One father shares his strategy for booking the best seating options for his family of two parents and two children. I'll admit it: I spend an inordinate amount of time deciding whe...Ava needs therapy and to realize that she is your sister and wife’s child, not yours. Yes she’s your biological child but as a sperm donor, but she’s your sister and her wife’s daughter-not yours and your wife’s. She is biologically your children’s sibling but in a family dynamic as a whole she should be their cousin.For example, I found that my niece sneaked into my study and drew all over my wall when she was four. I was understanding that she's a child. I did not get upset in front of her. I calmly had my wife take her out and away. I had a massive anxiety attack over having my space interfered with. It's very clean the way I like it.Wife Update - 14th May 2024. AITA being pissed at what my wife said to our niece. My sister and bil were abusive parents to my niece, Charlotte. I always tried to protect her, but my wife and I were only able to get custody threw years ago. We adopted her, and she's a good kid at heart, but she still struggles a lot.r/AmItheAsshole •. AITA for "making my niece cry"? My wife (28F) won't stop talking to me (39M) because yesterday I was "way too harsh" towards my niece (10F) and that I "humiliated her". For some background info, yesterday we visited my SIL and my niece had a friend over. While my wife was chatting to SIL, niece introduced me ...Aug 6, 2021 · [Reddit AITA] AITA For Admitting That My Parents And My Neice Is The Reason Why I Left? Reddit Again - AITA. 194 subscribers. 608. 29K views 2 years ago #Parenting #AITA #Family.I had to save money to leave my parents as well. I had a few hiding places. Inside my closet, I had an envelope duct-taped above the door. There was an envelope taped in an old math textbook I kept on the bottom of my bookshelf. I also kept a box of pads in my underwear drawer, and a couple were folded bills in clean pad wrappers.. One in particular was rocking 100% lululeADMIN MOD. AITA for not taking my niece to see the Barbie mov ADMIN MOD. AITA For Not Letting My Parents' Adopted Son Stay At My Flat For The Weekend? Not the A-hole. For context: I am in my final year of upper school/ senior school/ high school and was essentially kicked out at 17. I was adopted as a toddler and my parents adopted my 'brother' who I have no relationship with just before I left. The post “AITA For Telling My Son It’s Not My Fault That He [Mes NTA I wish I had been your niece. My parents insisted I get a real degree, and go to a real college. I ended up attending one of the top culinary arts schools because I thought it would make everyone happy. I was on academic probation and flunked out in my second trimester. What I wanted to do was sing, learn music theory, and try my luck on ...My brother works night shift, so these calls are coming at around 9-10PM. I feel awful saying no but I have very limited time to myself and I don't think it's my job to take care of their baby. My brother's girlfriend was adamant on having a baby even though many thought —and still think— that she was not mature enough to have a baby. 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